yourbigsisnissi:
Love is consistent and stable. Although it may take time to understand if you love some one or if they love you, once love is there, it stays there. Love doesn’t come and go, it doesn’t fluctuate based off emotions and circumstance. Love is there when it’s sunny and love is there when it rains. If a person withholds love, or tells you one day they love you and the next day they aren’t sure, or if a person says I love you but doesn’t consistently act like they do, then it’s not love.
"Love is not posting pictures online and sending long messages every night so you know I appreciate you. Love is not talking every day just so we are not going to forget we both care. Yes, it is great to do those things when you love someone, but it should not be something that you need. Love is, not talking all day and knowing you still love someone and nothing will change it. Love is, when you go out late and call me when you get home even though I am asleep because you know how much I worry. Love is, when you stop making up excuses and admit you did something wrong and apologizing for your mistakes and try not to do them again. Love is, “please get your homework done so you can get the job you want and be happy in the future”. That is love. Love is, “let’s go to bed we both need rest and I don’t want to go without you”. Love is, “I know you’re out watching the sunset because you’re upset, and I’m really sorry. But I’m upset too and would like you to go home so you can FaceTime me.” And then leaving my favorite thing because you will always be a priority to me. Love is not always the big things that everyone else will notice, but the small things that are not going to be noticed by anyone except each other. I do not need extravagant to mean love. I need you."
"without even looking at him I knew what he was going to say “say it.“ I said quietly while moving my stare to meet his, he looked at me with sad and shook written over his face “say it…” he looked at me with such a broken look, I almost had to look away “I can’t…” he said “you’re going through to much, I can’t add onto it.” I shook my head “so you’ll say it when I’m happy and loving life instead? you want to pull me back into this black hole I’m trapped in?” I questioned, he was speechless, “no you won’t, because I don’t want that! I want you to say it now, I want to get over you while I’m in this hole. I don’t want to still be inlove with someone who no longer loves me, when I’m finally happy, so please I beg of you…say it now.” I said when tears wanting to flow down my face, but I couldn’t let them show how weak my heart feel right this moment. he looked at me with sadness in his eyes “I…I don’t love you.” his words stabbed into my heart but I had to hear it “that’s okay…it’s okay….I..thank you for telling me” he looked at me with worried eyes “wait-” I shook my head making him stop whatever he was going to say, I gave him one more longing look before turning around, finally letting the tears fall….leaving both him and my love for him there."
lohver:
how do i say “i miss you” in a way that will make your heart ache as much as mine does
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hplyrikz:
““I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with.””
— Fannie Flagg, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe (via hplyrikz)
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hplyrikz:
“I remember crying over you and I don’t mean a couple of tears and I’m blue. I’m talking about collapsing and screaming at the moon.”
— The Avett Brothers, Tear Down the House (via hplyrikz)
Clear your mind here
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